River City Shag Club

Down by the Sound

Fat Harold

He is celebrating his 75 th birthday and he is a living legend...... If you want to send him a card be sure to let him know he's got the best cheese burgers this side of Texas.....

                                                HAPPY BIRTHDAY FAT HAROLD

                                   

http://www.fatharolds.com/

Camp Kemo is just one of the charities that is close to Fat Harold's soul..  Read on to know why.

Camp Kemo

Camp Kemo Fundraiser 

 

The last Sunday of SOS has become synonymous with Fat Harold’s Camp Kemo fundraiser. This year marks the 25th year that Harold has done this, but his involvement with the camp goes back even further. In 1980 a group of doctors and nurses in Columbia hosted an event to raise money for a camp for children who were being treated for cancer at Palmetto Health Richland. Harold attended the fundraiser and took an immediate interest in the success of the program. That year, 45 children attended a day camp intended to provide an outing of fun.

 

In 1982, Harold began his now-famous fundraiser at the beach in his club. The money he has raised has greatly contributed to the success of the camp. The  $500.cost per camper is paid for by donations, and this year there are already 130 campers signed up for the weeklong overnight adventure. Harold visits the camp on “Visitor’s Day” each year to meet and mingle with the children. He laughingly recalls a camper running up to him, exclaiming, “Thank you, Mr. Fat Harold! Because of you, I got to come to camp and get away from my mean brother at home!”  Actually, the campers can bring a sibling or best friend with them to camp. This little guy must have chosen the friend!

Camp Kemo has a volunteer staff. 40 counselors, many of whom were previous campers themselves, generously give their time and talents to provide one week of fun for these kids who are in the midst of a struggle many adults will never have to face. There is a portable emergency room and ambulance at the camp, and there are 6 “med calls” daily when the campers receive their medications. Church groups and local restaurants provide snacks. Activities include arts and crafts, wood- working, canoeing, swimming, horseback riding, kayaking, tubing on Lake Murray, a dance with a dj, and music. Woody Wolfe, a musician from Pennsylvania, has been volunteering every summer for almost 20 years! This year, Camp Kemo will have a parade with floats that will travel through the heart of Columbia! After, the kids board busses for the return trip to camp with a police escort. Guess who the Grand Marshall of the parade will be…Fat Harold!

 

“Harold Bessent is simply a blessing,” quotes Jeanne Schmidt, director of Camp Kemo. “He has helped hundreds and hundreds of children and their families. While he may not know every camper’s name, he recognizes the importance of the week. He never asks for anything in return. His smile says it all!”

 

When Harold began this philanthropic effort, he never dreamed that one day he would have a family member who would be a candidate for Camp Kemo. In 1991 and ‘92, his own grandson David attended Camp Kemo. Sadly, David died a few years later; but that experience furthered Harold’s love for Camp Kemo in the most personal way of all.

 

This year Harold will present a check to Camp Kemo for $102,000. He is the largest single donor in the history of the camp. Twenty-fifth anniversaries typically are considered silver anniversaries, but Harold Bessent’s heart is pure gold!!   

 

Where We Meet

About 95% of our events are held at  The City's Meeting Place in Elizabeth City NC.  The City's Meeting Place has supported us as a club since 2002, when we first organized.  We are lucky to have them and try to support them in every way we can.  And they have the best food .

Free Dance Lessons

Every Wednesday night we offer free dance lessons at The City's Meeting Place from 7:00pm to 8:00pm.  The DJ begins playing right after lessons so that we can dance, socialize and practice our new steps.

Monthly Socials

We have a monthly social on the first Saturday of each month. the beach tunes start at 8:00 and many of us arrive early to enjoy dinner together.  There is always music, dancing and a fun, friendly atmosphere.  Come out and join us !!  Bring those shagging shoes and begin.

General Membership Meetings

Our General Membership Meetings are held on the third Wednesday of each month(except in Dec.). The meetings are held at The City's Meeting Place and start at 6:30. This is when we conduct all our club business.  All major decisions and issues are discussed and voted on at this time.  We encourage all members to attend and participate. This is your opportunity to have a voice in the club and make great things happen.

Annual Shag Classic

Every year we hold a fund raising event. The River City Shag Classic , for a local charity.  The Classic is usually held in April.  The entire club comes together to plan, organize and carry out this grand event. Thanks to the efforts our members and the local businesses we have been able to double our donation each year since we began this event.

Monthly Newletter

As a member of the River City Shag Club, you will receive a monthly mewsletter that keeps you up to date with what's going on in the club and other events.  If you have articles and news you want to share in our newsletter, please email it to rivercityshagclub@hotmail.com by the 25th of each month...

As a new member of The River City Shag Club, you will often hear members and other people in the shag world refer to SOS or "The Association".  They are referring to the The Association of Carolina Shag Clubs and the Society of Stranders. If you would like more information on the association , please visit:                                                                    www.shagdance.com

 

 

Our Family Motto

Anonymous. Submitted by Linda Wagner

Of this earth there are many dances;and the dancers of these dances revel inthem and take them into themselves. Butthose of us who are shaggers know there is only one dance that can have the whole ofus, our being; that can sooth us with simplicity, yet fire our hearts with meaning.In the groove, we tread lightly; more softly than our hearts are beating - when we arereally in it for a dance - or for only aninstant when our partner is with us and we are floating together in the slot and in the same feeling. It is then that we are one with Shag till we are dreaming it, this healing dream; that we would sleep forever, this dance, if we could.

The Shag was born of the sea; not of waves crashing on a shore, but of deep, smooth currents; and came ashore through crystal sands, was purified, anchored and settled in the sand - waiting. And then the music came; and young men, who wanted more, who needed more, were at the beach and heard the music and stomped in the sand where the dance was and stirred it; and the silicon in the sand eased their steps till they were sliding in the music and their movements became smooth, like the deep current; and watching eyes of young girls quickened; and they gave the young men their hands .and followed them and The Shag became live; and we all are in it now, as it is within us. We know that The Shag is so much more than a dance. If you are true to it, and the way it makes you feel, then it must be a pathway of your life in the Family of Shaggers. For you will age, as I am aging; and you will disappear and become just a memory in some other shagger's mind. Yet your dance must survive you and live on for all generations. The future of Shag is up to

you. So cherish The Shag. Keep it pure. Resist the infiltration of other dances. Let other dances take from us; do not take from them. Always practice your craft. When you dance, let your countenance show your pleasure, your joy, for others are watching. Dance with them if they show interest. Take time to instruct. The smallest act on your part could plant a seed, to grow in them and blossom into a love for Shag. Do not be so absorbed with your own pleasure in The Dance that you, forget your higher cause should always be The Shags survival - because there are just too few of us for it to have a long life without your most determined efforts. Take it with you when you travel - to the corners of the earth. Indoctrinate your children, your siblings., your friends. Speak of it to everyone you meet. Seek out converts. . Praise; testify; cajole; beg, if you must.

All who inhabit this world are dancers through life - in a way. But the record playing for us is a 45, and it is damn short. Like our water and air, The Shag should be given a chance for pure survival. So do what you can. Just don't let the deejay pack up. Don't let the band stop playing. Just give us one more dance; one more Shag; one more SHAG, FOREVER. . .. . ....